I ran across this Top 20 list of things I would tell a engaged, newlywed, or older married couple. I found this list so true and wanted to share it.
1.
Marriage is made up of two good forgivers. Because every marriage is made up of two sinners. (Romans 3:23)
2.
At some point, you will have to learn that life isn’t all about you. (Philippians 2:3)
3.
Don’t listen to women that tell you that passion fades…it doesn’t have to! (um…all of Song of Solomon)
4.
Don’t give up. Love never fails. (1 Cor. 13)
5.
He wants a kind wife, not a maid or another mother. Be nice. (Galatians 5:22-23)
6.
Give your husband the gift of your respect. He needs it more than you know. (Ephesians 5:33)
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Be mindful of your expectations.
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Honor the Lord above all things. Colossians 3: 17
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Find your worth and security in the Lord, and don’t look to your husband to meet all of your needs.
10.
Be very careful about reading romance novels, they set you up for an unrealistic view of romance.
11.
Real romance is finding that one spot in the crook of his arm to snuggle into, that shared look over the dinner table when the kids are acting crazy, and the way he fixes the leaky sink when he is dog-tired after work. (So true!!)
12.
Love is about relationship. The more I love my husband, and seek a relationship with him, the less critical and duty-bound I become. It is similar to my relationship with God.
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Be thankful for the husband you have. Accept him as he is, not for what you want him to be.
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Don’t compare!! Don’t buy into the game of comparing him with anyone else’s husband.
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The Biblically “normal” marriage is filled with joy, connection, laughter, and peace. It’s not free of hurt feelings and conflict, but they know how to process their pain with one another so that they live more often in a meadow than at the scene of a train wreck. This is not the average marriage, but it normal – -because it is a visible display of Jesus’ relationship with His bride (Ephesians 5:22-33).
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Your marriage is a testimony! “The #1 evangelistic tool in America (the world) today is a successful marriage, because it’s a living miracle!” – Dr. Joe Aldrich, former president of Multnomah Bible College.
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Pray for your marriage. Pray hard.
18.
I’ve heard that is gets better with age. I have to say in my short {9 year} experience, that is so true.
19.
Where there is God, there is always hope. Even for the most broken marriages. “With God all things are possible.” (Matthew 19:26)
20.
Marriage is commitment and sacrifice. But it’s also the best, most wild ride you will ever have with your best friend.
I found the list on
this blog and Sarah added # 21. This one is so very true for Lee and I.
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Take the time to invest in your marriage. Spend time together. Carve out time, even in the busyness of life, to spend with your love. How can you grow and mature in something you don't invest time in. Life is busy, and I know it can be hard with children, but make the commitment to make your spouse the most important relationship, aside from your relationship with Christ. Your children should never come before your husband. That's not how God Designed marriage.
I'm so glad I ran across this list on her blog. Sometimes I feel like God leads me to certain post so that he can get my attention. I atteneded the Unique Night of Worship last week at our church. It was so nice to be there and worship with other women who have the same daily battles as I do.
